i remember the first time my ex wife tried to rim me, finger me, i didn t expect that at all, it was supposed to be a bj but she started to focus on my anus and i v never had that done before, i didn t expect it, nor did i think she would do such a thing. i told her not to, i was confused a lot, embarassed too. she tried many times after that and i was still reluctant.i agreed to the riming because she was insisting and her her bj s were just too good to say no to it. with time, i wish i did let her do whatever she wanted to do to me, and god knows she had many things in mind!!